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If you are looking for food freedom, peace with your body and ways to elevate your health without all the rules, you are in the right place.
You can have progress in your health journey and be kind to yourself and have fun all at the same time.
Kim Hynes
Health & Wellness Blog
If you are looking for food freedom, peace with your body and ways to elevate your health without all the rules, you are in the right place.
You can have progress in your health journey and be kind to yourself and have fun all at the same time.
Tips to reduce emotional eating using positive self talk
Emotional eating and negative self talk go hand in hand.
Do you find yourself saying things in your head like:
"Don't be so stupid"
"You will just fail again so why try"
“You ate so much, you are disgusting”
“How could anyone love me with this body?”
“Why eat well when I can’t do it all the time?”
When you struggle with emotional and binge eating, negative self-talk will only further the shame, guilt and self sabotage. The mind and body hear every word you say, but you can learn how to change those negative thoughts into positive thoughts.
The right self-talk is so important because you believe what your mind says. Making changes to your health, your eating habits and how you view your body is so much harder when you are critical of yourself. Being mean to yourself is not a good motivator for change.
Imagine being your own cheerleader every day instead of putting yourself down. It’s like your favorite friend that only has your best interests at heart for you all the time. You are with you 24/7 and could be the most uplifting and supportive person in your life.
Here's the good news!
You don't have to believe every negative thought and you can create your own self-talk. You can choose talk that is positive, supportive, and loving and is in YOUR voice.
The negative voice we hear is often from our past. It could be from childhood, school or relationships, but those negative put downs and labels are someone else’s voice. It’s not your voice, but you are replaying it over and over again.
When we have guilt, shame, trauma, have been bullied or parents who were overly focused on appearance, it is very easy to keep letting those thoughts come into the present day.
Unfortunately, those feelings of not being good enough cause you to over eat, eat when you are not hungry and even binge.
It's time to tell yourself a new story and for you to start believing it.
So how do you begin to change the inner critic so you can also reduce the emotional eating?
Tips for you to have self compassion and stop the emotional eating pattern.
Challenge the negative self-talk. Be present and remind yourself you are here now and your voice is your choice. Being kind to yourself takes practice. Being mindful of your unkind thoughts can help you change them as soon as they come into your mind. Question whether the thought is true or it is a recurring thought that comes out of habit from your past. Habits, including self talk, can be changed. Being present and mindful is a powerful tool to reduce the emotional eating and binge eating.
Talk to yourself like you would talk to your best friend. Get away from the “all or nothing” thinking. The biggest lie we tell ourselves is that we have to be perfect. Be kind and gentle with yourself. You would never speak to your best friend or child the way you speak to yourself.
Start the day with affirmations. You could say things like:
“It’s OK. I am here for you”
“You can try again”
“You are wonderful just the way you are”
“You are special and unique”
“Your body can do amazing things”
“You are lovable”
“You don’t have to be perfect”
“Being authentically you is the best you”
Let go of limiting beliefs around emotional eating. Instead of using words like “can’t” and “shouldn’t”. Tell yourself you have permission to eat. When you are empowered and have the choice, you will eat less and more mindfully. You may even enjoy it as a treat instead of a coping mechanism. (that’s the goal)
When you let go of restrictive words and diet conversation with yourself, you can focus on nourishing your mind and body. Make it about what you CAN have, not about what you can’t.
Allow yourself to have breaks to reduce stress during the day. Speaking to yourself kindly and giving yourself permission to rest, meditate or walk will reduce the urge to soothe and comfort yourself later. Talking to your mind and body and allowing yourself to be OK with not being too busy is important. Stress catches up with you at the end of the day in the form of emotional eating.
Practice being authentically you and reduce people pleasing. When your inner critic pipes up, it suppresses who we really are. You may also use eating as a way to feel more comfortable when you stand up for yourself.
Reminding your inner voice that it’s good to be your unique and special self will help you set better boundaries. You may entertain self talk that makes you feel guilty if you are not doing more for others. Again, that may be someone else’s voice, but is it true? Taking care of yourself is actually the best way to cultivate energy and desire to help others.
Being mean to yourself will not motivate you nearly as much as being loving to yourself. Being critical and cruel to yourself will not help you move in a positive direction or make positive changes.
Being positive with yourself, giving yourself grace and loving every part of you will lead to food freedom and body peace.
If you are needing more support, let’s connect.
XOXO,
Kim
Tips to reduce emotional eating using positive self talk
Emotional eating and negative self talk go hand in hand.
Do you find yourself saying things in your head like:
"Don't be so stupid"
"You will just fail again so why try"
“You ate so much, you are disgusting”
“How could anyone love me with this body?”
“Why eat well when I can’t do it all the time?”
When you struggle with emotional and binge eating, negative self-talk will only further the shame, guilt and self sabotage. The mind and body hear every word you say, but you can learn how to change those negative thoughts into positive thoughts.
The right self-talk is so important because you believe what your mind says. Making changes to your health, your eating habits and how you view your body is so much harder when you are critical of yourself. Being mean to yourself is not a good motivator for change.
Imagine being your own cheerleader every day instead of putting yourself down. It’s like your favorite friend that only has your best interests at heart for you all the time. You are with you 24/7 and could be the most uplifting and supportive person in your life.
Here's the good news!
You don't have to believe every negative thought and you can create your own self-talk. You can choose talk that is positive, supportive, and loving and is in YOUR voice.
The negative voice we hear is often from our past. It could be from childhood, school or relationships, but those negative put downs and labels are someone else’s voice. It’s not your voice, but you are replaying it over and over again.
When we have guilt, shame, trauma, have been bullied or parents who were overly focused on appearance, it is very easy to keep letting those thoughts come into the present day.
Unfortunately, those feelings of not being good enough cause you to over eat, eat when you are not hungry and even binge.
It's time to tell yourself a new story and for you to start believing it.
So how do you begin to change the inner critic so you can also reduce the emotional eating?
Tips for you to have self compassion and stop the emotional eating pattern.
Challenge the negative self-talk. Be present and remind yourself you are here now and your voice is your choice. Being kind to yourself takes practice. Being mindful of your unkind thoughts can help you change them as soon as they come into your mind. Question whether the thought is true or it is a recurring thought that comes out of habit from your past. Habits, including self talk, can be changed. Being present and mindful is a powerful tool to reduce the emotional eating and binge eating.
Talk to yourself like you would talk to your best friend. Get away from the “all or nothing” thinking. The biggest lie we tell ourselves is that we have to be perfect. Be kind and gentle with yourself. You would never speak to your best friend or child the way you speak to yourself.
Start the day with affirmations. You could say things like:
“It’s OK. I am here for you”
“You can try again”
“You are wonderful just the way you are”
“You are special and unique”
“Your body can do amazing things”
“You are lovable”
“You don’t have to be perfect”
“Being authentically you is the best you”
Let go of limiting beliefs around emotional eating. Instead of using words like “can’t” and “shouldn’t”. Tell yourself you have permission to eat. When you are empowered and have the choice, you will eat less and more mindfully. You may even enjoy it as a treat instead of a coping mechanism. (that’s the goal)
When you let go of restrictive words and diet conversation with yourself, you can focus on nourishing your mind and body. Make it about what you CAN have, not about what you can’t.
Allow yourself to have breaks to reduce stress during the day. Speaking to yourself kindly and giving yourself permission to rest, meditate or walk will reduce the urge to soothe and comfort yourself later. Talking to your mind and body and allowing yourself to be OK with not being too busy is important. Stress catches up with you at the end of the day in the form of emotional eating.
Practice being authentically you and reduce people pleasing. When your inner critic pipes up, it suppresses who we really are. You may also use eating as a way to feel more comfortable when you stand up for yourself.
Reminding your inner voice that it’s good to be your unique and special self will help you set better boundaries. You may entertain self talk that makes you feel guilty if you are not doing more for others. Again, that may be someone else’s voice, but is it true? Taking care of yourself is actually the best way to cultivate energy and desire to help others.
Being mean to yourself will not motivate you nearly as much as being loving to yourself. Being critical and cruel to yourself will not help you move in a positive direction or make positive changes.
Being positive with yourself, giving yourself grace and loving every part of you will lead to food freedom and body peace.
If you are needing more support, let’s connect.
XOXO,
Kim
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Thank you so much for everything.
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Kim taught me to listen to my body. I now can slow down and find out what I really need…which is not always food. I also learned it doesn’t have to be all or nothing. I struggled with dieting and then overeating. I have found a happy place where I can just be. She also taught me so much about food, reading labels and how good real food can be. Thank you.
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My reason for hiring Kim is different as I already knew how to eat healthy and was already in great shape. I wanted to learn more about digestion and overall gut health which is super important for all aspects of life. She is amazing! Very easy to talk too and she made me feel very comfortable and I felt like I could tell her anything and she would not judge me. She is very nice and definitely very knowledgeable! She was able to help me in every way I needed and then some! Anyone who needs any form of help that she offers because she is top notch and well worth the money and time!Could not be happier with the decision I made to hire her as my coach!
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I feel an enthusiasm for embracing routines and habits that encompass not only my body, but spirit and mind. Kim is a beautiful, genuine person who is intuitive and kind.
Her support and positive perspective always turn around my attitude and help me see the favorable aspect to decisions I’ve made in a non-judgemental way.
Access to this type of reassurance is perpetual and brings peace of mind. Kim is much more than a health coach. She is a tireless champion of holistic healing for those eager to initiate lasting transformation of their lives. Kim has been instrumental in bringing me home to my truest self.
M. C.
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What They Say
Discover What My Clients Are Saying
“You have a unique and special way.”
The most significant thing that changed in my work with you was that my all consuming, soul-killing obsession with food was relieved through gentle healing and integration. I knew in my heart that you really cared about me and had my best interests at heart which helped me to re-connect with my own ability to love and support myself. When that part felt back in balance I think the food piece also re-balanced itself. Another incredible gift you offer is a super well resourced tool box! There was also plenty of deep diving into core wounding and reviewing old stories, all of which you skillfully guided me though and helped me to integrate in order to heal.
Thank you so much for everything.
E. K.
“It seems so simple now!”
Kim taught me to listen to my body. I now can slow down and find out what I really need…which is not always food. I also learned it doesn’t have to be all or nothing. I struggled with dieting and then overeating. I have found a happy place where I can just be. She also taught me so much about food, reading labels and how good real food can be. Thank you.
M. B.
“I felt like I could tell her anything and she would not judge me.”
My reason for hiring Kim is different as I already knew how to eat healthy and was already in great shape. I wanted to learn more about digestion and overall gut health which is super important for all aspects of life. She is amazing! Very easy to talk too and she made me feel very comfortable and I felt like I could tell her anything and she would not judge me. She is very nice and definitely very knowledgeable! She was able to help me in every way I needed and then some! Anyone who needs any form of help that she offers because she is top notch and well worth the money and time!Could not be happier with the decision I made to hire her as my coach!
K. C.
“Kim is much more than a health coach. She is a tireless champion of holistic healing for those eager to initiate lasting transformation of their lives.”
I feel an enthusiasm for embracing routines and habits that encompass not only my body, but spirit and mind. Kim is a beautiful, genuine person who is intuitive and kind.
Her support and positive perspective always turn around my attitude and help me see the favorable aspect to decisions I’ve made in a non-judgemental way.
Access to this type of reassurance is perpetual and brings peace of mind. Kim is much more than a health coach. She is a tireless champion of holistic healing for those eager to initiate lasting transformation of their lives. Kim has been instrumental in bringing me home to my truest self.
M. C.
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